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writes: Me and my ex have become friends. He just broke up with his year long girlfriend we talk every day but he still just wants to be my friend. but I'm still in love with him. What should I do?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (8 July 2005):
If you feel that being friends wouldnt be enough for you, you have to tell him and break off your relationship with him for good.Remain friends with him if you feel that you can do this.
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (8 July 2005):
Ever hear the saying, "old habits die hard?"
Your ex has ended another relationship & returns to comfortable territory....You !
He is not in love with you, just wants to be friends, but you are still in love with him & talk to him every day.
Honey, you are leaving yourself WIDE OPEN to be hurt again.
You are putting yourself in a vulnerable position to let your heart go in his direction again, but you KNOW he will not reciprocate, he has made it clear he wants only friendship.
My advice to you...cease communication with him.
If he knows you are still in love with him, but still takes advantage of the fact you will always be there for him, he is being selfish & insensitive.
He can talk to someone else...a male buddy, about his breakup...he does not need to mess up your head or tug at your heartstrings...and believe me...he KNOWS what he is doing when he talks to you every single day !
Also, if he's talking to you...his ex...you can guarantee he will contact his "other" ex & chat with her, too.
I'm reading between the lines, but I sense this guy is a "Player"...he's self-centered & likes to have his ego stroked by basking in the knowledge that you still have fire in your heart for him.
Extingish the flames, sweet angel, before the fire gets out of control and you get burned...Again !
All the best,
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