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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex and I have been broken up for a year. We go to a small school. Most couples that break up at school act cordial to each other afterwards but my ex HATES me for no reason. At the time he was having family problems and broke up with me. I waited for a while for him to come back to me and then later got asked out by another boy at school. I am still dating the other boy. I try to be friends with my ex as I still care for him, and deep down I feel I would leave my current boyfriend for my ex, but it would never happen because of the way my ex has been acting towards me for a year. We still have several more years together at this school. My current boyfriend graduated. I just wish I could read this boy's mind. Why is he acting this way? Its so immature! We have to see each other every day and its so frustrating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Yes I'm a sophmore in high school, ex is a junior. He tells others he doesn't care about me, then why is he acting this way? I try to be his friend, but he says we can not be friends. He gets jealous if any of his friends pass attention to me. He broke up with me. He never asked me back out. I had no choice but to move on!
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female
reader, sexi +, writes (7 September 2007):
Hi
Firstly,Is your age correct?
Your ex is probably hurting as he did not expect you to be someone else. He ended things with you as he was having problems with his family and was probably not thinking clearly but that is really no reason for him to be "put off you" as you say.You should try writing him a letter to say how you feel and that you would still like to be his friend.Also i dont think that you should be with your present bf if you dont entirely love him as his would not obviously lessen any chance of you and your ex getting back together which i assume you still want.Hope this has helped you.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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