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writes:well i went out with (and fell in love with) this one guy for a little more then a year, and later had to break up with him due to problems he had at the time. since then his problems have been solved, but i have a new boyfriend (that i think im falling in love with)the problem is that i saw the first guy the other day, and still feel the same way that i had before the new guy.i dont want my current boyfriend to think that im a bad person, but what is there to do when i think i have two loves at once? is it even possible to love two people at one time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys!!!
well, i talked to the other guy, and we both know and understand that we cant do more then be best friends.
me and ma boyfriend are now about to celebrate one and a half years!!!
thanks for all the help guys!!!
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (2 September 2008):
hiyah, its a really hard situation to be in and it messes up all your emotions and evtually its all you think of. Its difficult to say really , you seem to have a lot of respect for the guy your with by not wanting him to think your a bad person so his opion of you must mean a lot to you. youve lasted so long without the first guy for so long and even found love after him. You have to sort this problem out sooner rather than later before people start getting hurt.
If youve seen him and still felt the same then theres obvioulsy something still there. it sounds harsh and i wouldnt usally advise an one to do this but compare the two, who are you happiest with, who do you really love the most. Its hard but you will have to make a descion soon.
hope it goes ok (sorry this wasnt much help) let us know how it goes
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reader, ariad  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Let me tell you that I face the same situtaion now. I feel I love both of them, they are totally different and awesome in their own ways, in fact I am dating both, and I cannot decide which one it is the best, so my advice is that you decide before getting into what I am now, I do not wish this on my worst enemy. Good luck!
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