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writes: my ex and i met up a month or so ago. i told him that i still had feelings for him and because we were both seeing other people i said i thought it best we had space. he confessed that he still loved me and that he would never find anoyone like me again. he spoke about the future saying that he'd like us to go to counselling and move in together. he bought me xmas presents etc and kept in touch over dec. however we had a bit of a row over boxing night as i got very drunk and did and said some stupid things which i really regret. he now wants space to deceide who he wants etc. but i feel this is just his way of letting me down gently.i just don't get it. if he's happy with this new girl why tell me he still loves me and speak about the future etc? could he really base his entire decision on one stupid night? i'm going to move on like he never came back as thats the only way i can remain sane i think! i miss him like mad though and just wanted a decent chance to give it a proper shot with him. we've been through loads together and from one thing to another i never felt that we had a fair go. any advice/opinion etc thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): i don't know wh the title of this says that he was drunk...because he wasn't! he e mailed me to say he loved me....plus told me whilst sober that he wanted me back/talked about the future etc. we've met up a few times the last month to discuss these things. he has said that we should have space as he thinks its morally right as he has a gf...and that he needs time to think this through.
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reader, marilyn512 +, writes (10 January 2007):
i had something like this happen to me too. i do you have any record of how he told you? like email or myspace. i think your best guess is that even tho he was drunk he probibly got the real truth out of him. so if you begin freaking out because you know and he doesn't (which is probibly the reason you are on here) you should tell him. but lay it on easy. if you want him back good just start out casual like,
"hey you know i talked to you the other night i dont think you remember tho"
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