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writes:hi, I really hope someone will understand my situation.. I really feel bad and I can't achieve the things I always wanted to do and I think that all of this is because I put myself in some bad relationships and it always ends up badly, I really don't know why boys use me.. last year I met this former BF who was my first real BF and before I realize it, I was already sleeping with him.. now I don't know if there is a relationship between us because he only contacts me when he wants to "meet" and I really don't know how to communicate with him, I feel like I don't have the right to ask him to have a conversation.. on the other hand, I suck in starting new relationships, I want someone I could feel comfortable with him but I just figure out that I'm too crazy for them or too needy.. I carry this past of my first BF with me everywhere I go, it's been more than 4 years now and he keeps coming and going, making me so confused and lost, I like him but I don't know where I stand in this thing between us,I keep missing him everytime he disappears, I'm so afraid that he will leave me anytime he wants to, I can't live like this.. I need help please, thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): are you happy being a door mat? are you happy you're the one he cheats with when he feels like it? are you happy that he's cheating on you right now as well sleeping with others?
i dont understand why you would miss someone that sleeps around.
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reader, SweetindianGirl  +, writes (25 September 2010):
oh jeez girl i think you sound similar to me, except i am older and my bf actually who "isnt with me" texts as he pleases...i dont think u shud meet him as you please bc the reason he even comes bck to u isnt bc he misses u its bc someone broke his heart and he eneds to do that to u to recharge his ego! I know u love him and so wut if you slept wiht him? i lost my virgnity after 24 yrs for the first time to a guy i was with for 3 yrs...my firs tbf but definitely not OUR last. dont be sad, i knw u feel u wont feel comfortable and wont be able to take ur clothes off infront of any guy without them judging your body or you, but trust me, if a jerk can do it, a normal guy can do it.
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