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26-29,
*levatorgirl
writes:Okay, im not sure how to put this... but what should i do if i like somebody who wuld never talk to me, When i was in love with my ex a day before?? I know this is confusing, but today i felt a really strong attraction to this guy in my class, ive thought he was hot for a few days, and now all of a sudden i want to make out with him. and the thing is, just yesterday i was in love with my ex. And when i saw him today, its like all the lust i felt for him had been sucked out. And ive been in love with him for three years, and now all of a sudden im drooling over someone else. And i dnt talk to my ex, but he does smile at me sometimes and we hav most of the same friends. like today in the lunch line he was standing so close our shirt sleeves were touching, and he probably felt it, but he didnt move. and yesterday, my heart wuldve been pounding, but today i felt a little twinge but that was all. but the thing is my ex really is a nice guy, hes friends with everyone. And he acts like he might be interested in me. but the guy i like now, alot of people say hes a jerk, and i dnt really know him at all. what should i do??? Can you really fall out of love with someone in just one day????
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reader, Confused33 +, writes (25 September 2010):
Yes you can, it happened to me :/
I was in love with my bf and idk what happened i jus fell out of love with him. I moved away from CA to PA for college and i swore i'd be with him forever but my feelings changed. Saturday night i was telling him how much i loved him and sunday afternoon i broke up with him. I met this guy Tim and i've been drooling for him for these past days and i have a date with him tomorrow. It might sound like im a bitch because it hasnt been a week and im already dating someone else but im not im really a nice person its just that i fell out of love with him dnt ask me how it happened it just did.
When i broke up with he cried and begged me not to but my heart didnt belong to him anymore.
Im just telling you to listen to your heart and your feelings dnt listen to others only to what ur heart is telling u.
Good Luck :)
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reader, shooker24 +, writes (25 September 2010):
You sound JUST like me! You broke up for a reason, right? Venture out! See how it goes! New people and new oppertunites. Maybe its the wrong time for you and your ex. If its meant to be, you will end up together again someday. Go with the new guy! Nothing against your ex by the way. I just made the mistake with sticking with the old guy and I ended up on depression medication... Bad things happened. Not saying that will happen to you by any means! Just take a chance :] Good luck!
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