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writes:My ex bf and I broke up in October, but we have a habit of having sex everytime we meet up, and we're still really good friends. Now he's finally going out with a girl he's been pursuing for months so we're not having sex, but he introduced me t his friend a few days ago and we really hit it off. We've spent quite a lot of time together, and have fooled around a lot.But I keep hearing that my ex is warning this new guy off me. He told him I was bad news and that I was only in it for sex, and that some other ex boyfriend would agree with him because I screwed him u too. This is all complete bulls**t. Every time I've had sex with my ex since we broke up it was him who initiated it, and he doesn't even know any of my other ex's. What's his game?
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 April 2007):
 sounds like your ex is a tad jealous he hasnt got you there to use anymore.the fact hes spreading this stuff around should show everyone why hes your ex including you but unfortunately life isnt like that.tell him to back off from your new fella.he should be supporting you too.ask him that if hes trying to make you look easy isnt he also mugging himself off infront of his new girl.if i was his girl id be pretty worried as to why he spends time doing all this rumour mongering and trying to put guys off you.definetly sound like sour grapes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): What you are telling us is a very good example of just why when two people split up they should NOT remain friends; let alone "friends with benefits."
The "benefits" are all his: you let him have sex with you and you have had sex with another of your ex boyfriends also. It isn't bullshpit; unfortunately you have gotten yourself something of a reputation for being a bit "easy." Boys may enjoy the sex, but they won't respect you, it doesn't matter who initiated it.
Back off: have nothing more to do with any of your ex's and see how it plays out with the one you are currently seeing. Perhaps it would be a good idea to hold off on getting into sex with him for at least the next month or so, until you see whether he really likes you and you both have things in common (values, interests) and the basic "ingredients" for a healthy relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): Ummmm, I think you have a bit of a reputation for being easy and it is a guy thing, they are passing you around it seems to me.....his game is to discount you, which is not very nice....I don't think you are friends, I think you are sex partners and that is it....sorry.
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reader, Vikkiloo94 +, writes (15 April 2007):
Its Obvious your ex still likes you! you should talk to him and ask him whats wrong and why hes doing this!
if he was over you, he would be happy that you have moved on but hes trying to split you and your new bf up, so maybe he wants to get back with you? good luck =D
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