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writes: Hey there,I am 16, quite experienced....BUT....a few years ago, I gave my boyfriend(at the time)head....I knew that it wasn't very good. It was my first time giving and his first time recieving. Afterwards, he made funn of me for it. Then as the months went by, I had a new boyfriend and again, it was his first time recieving, and yet I knew that it wasn't very good. Ever since then I didn't really give head much because I was afraid of what the guy would think, and since I was made fun of before, I was against giving it. Currently I have a boyfriend and last saturday I gave him head. It was the first time for me in the longest time, but he didn't know that. I felt really dumb because he had to help me with it, and I wasn't fast enough...But the thing is, next time I want to actually be GOOD at it. I can't just "practise" I want to know what makes the men go crazy. I want to know the "techniques". Any tips????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): Ok as they have said your ex is a real jerk!
I am VERY experianced and can make my bf scream during head so i knwo what im talking about (and by scream i meen he needs to put a pillow over his face lol its a searios scream, and then after he can hardly talk it really does work!)
now lets get down to business.
What you want to do is get him really horny, try touching him, kissing him, or giving him a handjob.
Then get into a comfortabul posititon, this is really improtant for the more comfortabul you are the longer you can go. Some posistions you cna try are him standing and u neeling on the floor or sitting in a chair, which ever works best for both of you.
When you first start off try licking the head and the part where the head connects to the shaft. Just lick there for a bit then start to wrap your lips around it. *as the others have said befor try not to scrap it with your teeth, stry loosly covering your teeth with your lips. Put one of your hands at the base of his shaft, you may want to give him a handjob wile giving him head, closeing your hand a little more when you get go over the head and opening it as your go back down, and try twisting your hand a bt when doing this, they really like that (if you are going to put your hand around the shaft right afteryer mouth, as if it were an extention). With you tounge rub and twist it around the whole head, wile moveing up and down. Keep eye contact with him because guys are more visual when it comes to sexual things, they like to see whats happening. Another thing to do is to let him know your enjoying it, make mmmm noises. As he starts to respond more (and you will know if he is likeing it or not) you can start to go faster and faster, I usually let my boyfriend put his hands on my head to let me know how fast he wants me to go, if he want it faste he will push Lightly and if he wasnt slower then he will slow the rythem. This is a good idea but you need to let him know to not push hard, this is mearly a way for comunication without words, considering you dont know whats going through his head and even if he tells you to go fast or slow down oyu dont really knwo how fas tor slow he wants it.
When he reaches his climax slow all the way down. If you dont want him to cum in your mouth then try doing this with your shirt off and pull back befor he cums (but continue with the handjob untill he cums) and let him cum all ver your chest. Guys like this, but if you dont mind him cumming in your mouth then so be it, but when he cums you need to stop, for it gets REALLY intense and sometimes can be intense in a painful way.
Remember that through this you are in controle and if you dont like it then do something that you find more comfortable.
Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Or rather, talk with your bf, ask him how he likes it, experiment - OPEN communication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): first of all, get in a comfortable position that gives you the control you need. get it wet, don't use your teeth and it will be good for him. What's even better is if you can use your tongue a bit while you're sucking. Also, I've found that it drives men crazy when you're looking them in the eye while you're doing it. Pay no attention to your ex, that was rude of him, especially since many women dont even like doing it.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 well first of all your ex bf is a jerk for making fun of you. Second of all, don't let your new boy feel your teeth at all when doing it. Third, squeeze your lips a little when doing it. Go fast but not that fast. Use your right hand on the bottom of his penis. And they like it when you let them come inside your mouth. While doing it look at him a few times with a sexy look in your eyes lol.
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