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writes: hi. so i havent asked anything in a long time but now im in a pickle. see me and my boyfriend are kinda in a long distance relationship. we have been together for almost two years. and about for the past 6 months have been through long distance. i hated the idea of it but had no choice. he lived two provinces away from me. so i made him move back. but he now livez about 2 hours away which is better but then not really. i feel like i need someone with me all the time. and i have been without him for such a long time. i do love him with all my heart. but dont know what i should do. i go to a different school. and he will start to go to the school in that town. i feel like he is going to find someone out there. he says he wont. but theres alot of things he said he wouldnt do and still did. i told him i needed him here with me and i can feel things just slowly sliding. and i dont want that. to put it in simplier terms. i think i am bored with our relationship. it needs excitement and all that jazz. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (19 December 2006):
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I think u haven’t made peace with ur having a long distance relationship. The most important thing for an ld to work is open communication and trust, trust, trust. The feeling of wanting him next to u its normal, but under the circumstances is impossible which u need to learn to accept the poor guy is trying he even moved two hours closer and still u are not satisfied, I think u are naggy and a clingy kinda person and fortunately u got a man who loves u and will do most of the things if not everything to make u happy. What have u done to try to be closer to him upto so far? Maybe this time its ur turn. Another thing u need to stop being so insecure bfore u weary him with ur clinginess, find other staff to make urself busy, get a new hobby, new friends, spend time with ur family, visit him when u can, this guy will never satisfy u until u are satisfied with urself this is a gap u have to fill on ur own. A relationship is about giving and receiving not just receive as this is what u are expecting from him. Learn to give then u will be able to know what is missing, don’t wait for him bring the excitement and that jazz, u know what u want don’t u? Surprise him. Remember in a relationship u don’t look for someone to complete u but someone to complement u that’s how u will be able to see their worth. Good luck
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