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writes: I still think about my babys father. we met in 2003 and I got pregnant in 2004, he at first was a jerk about it, then later on came around, all this time while he treated me badly i still loved him and hoped and prayed that he would feel the same way, he probably did but was afraid of committment didn't want to be tied down so I felt i had to let him go. after he came around he hung around us (me and his son)for close to six months and has disappeared on me again. the problem is i still feel that deep down i'm still in love with him and hope that we will be together again, I have met someon else though, but i'm not sure i feel for him the way i feel for the previous. Is there any thing i can do to get on with my life, unfortunately he will always be a part of my life since i have his child, maybe its only natural to have feelings for youe ex. any advice? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, want2die +, writes (14 December 2006):
 You need to ask yourself one thing. Who was with you when you most needed him ? Was it your ex or your current boyfriend ? You may have feelings for your ex, but you need to get over it now. Looking at what he has done before, you cant expect him to come back again and stick to you forever. Even if he does come back, you will always be insecure with him. It is very natural to have feelings for your ex, but do get on with your life dear. Try to look at your boyfriend of now ,try loving him, maybe things will work out and you will be one happy family. If you still cant, talk it out with your ex, ask him if he is ready for a commitment, and if he answers in the negative, you have your answer right there..But whatever you do, be sure of it.. Good luck :)
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