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writes:Im going out with an 18 year old guy, but Im only 13 almost 14. I've been with him for a 13 months and Ive told him my own do's and don'ts and he said he repected that and wasn't going to go beyond the line, dont worry I never though of having sex period till I was married and ready. My mom knew before and didn't like it, because she thinks hes a sweettalker so just to get her off my back I said that we broke up. My dad is for lebanon and very very protective, and amazingly my boyfriend is really good friends with him. I know for a fact my dad would dis own me.What do I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its a long distance relationship, and he lives all the way in Asia, and i live in Canada. I think Im in love with him, and he is in love with me I dont know how to break it off with him without hurting him too much. But I dont know if I should wait to do it till I go there this christmas or do it over the phone?? HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its a long distance relationship, and he lives all the way in Asia, and i live in Canada. I think Im in love with him, and he is in love with me I dont know how to break it off with him without hurting him too much. But I dont know if I should wait to do it till I go there this christmas or do it over the phone?? HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): I know exacly how you feel!! im 18 now.. but when i was 14 i went out with a 18 year old guy. My advice to you is to talk to your dad and try and reason with him for example say to him "dad i dont want to have to lie to u anymore but i really like ? and he makes me really happy" then he may reason with you and say that you can see him but only at certain times and places although this may seems unfair at the time, but when you put yourself in your dads shoes you would see it his way... You also need to think have i had enough time to do all the things my friends are doing at your age...you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend, think abut whats more important to you! But please dont go behind your dads back because one day he will find out and then he will not trust you when you get old enough to go out clubbing and finding boyfriends. GoodLuck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): He's way too old for you. I agree with Kenny, when you are 18 you WILL look back and realise how wrong it was for this MAN to date you. I don't care how sweet and caring he is, I promise you that you will think it's wrong. I can't blame yours parents and I'm surprised they let an 18yr old be your freind, I wouldn't. The age gap is too big in this time in your life. Please break up with him
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reader, kenny  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Reading this post the first thing i thought of is why is a 18 year old man interested in a 13 year old, this strikes he as somewhat odd to say the least. It does not suprise me atal when you say your dad would disown you, to be honest what dad would be happy with this.
So at the moment you are lying to both your Mum & Dad, your Mum thinks you have split up, and your Dad knows nothing about it. Is this what you are going to do sneak around for the next 3 years till you are 16?. Forward your life 5 years and picture yourself as an 18 year old, would you consider dating a 13 year old?.
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 You need to be honest with your parents, lying to them, and putting it off, imagine if you get caught. Your parents can EASILY call the cops, and have your boyfriend arrested for Statutory Rape, and will most likely be sent to prison,
Honestly, the best idea is to break up. Or put your relationship on hold, not only is it illegal here in the US, but it's causing you problems like this. Best of luck, take care,
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