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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help i have a deep crush on a guy in college and he doesnt speak to me at all even though we used to when we attended a college program.its been almost a year like this but a few months ago he wished me on my birthday online in midnight..also he usually takes a glimpse of me while crossing paths.this confuses me..since we are from different faculties we hardly get to see each other.what is on his mind and what should i do?
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (28 September 2013):
Hi. I am this kind of guy.I think it's that he's just very tongue tied. He may have such a big crush on you that he doesn't know how to even spend a few minutes with you without being nervous.Since he's a guy, there's a simple answer for this. Find a place where you can get him alone and talk to him. And talk and talk and talk. Then ask him a few simple questions he can answer. If he seems really into what you're saying, he's into you. Then suggest that you meet up again, and soon his male instincts will kick in and he'll clumsily ask you out. He just needs some time getting comfortable around you. Don't be shocked if you find out he had a crush on you all along. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2013): I'm confused... he wished you happy birthday online, but he doesn't speak to you now. Do you mean that he USED TO speak to you, but doesn't now? If you have him on Facebook or some other social media, you must have been friendly with each other at some point.
About the not speaking part. If he just quit talking to you, ask him what's going on. You don't see him often, but ask him online, or ask him whenever you DO see him.
About the crush... are you guys friends? Get to be his friend, get close to him and then, you could TELL HIM how you feel, or wait and see if he acts like he likes you.
What do you have to lose? Good luck...
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