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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've known this girl for like a year or 2. Lets call her S. We finally decided to date and everything was going good and perfect for a while. We made out and everything.One day S suddenly broke up with me. At first, she told me that she had a lot of stuff going on with school, taking care of her sister and mom, finding a job, making money, etc... All of this is true because her mom has a really bad back and her sister is very young and whines and raises hell when she doesn't get what she wants.S said that she still wanted to be friends with me and I said that I didn't want to be friends because I was afraid of being stuck in the friend's zone and also because it would just be awkward because I was use to seeing her as a lover. She said that we had a 50/50 chance of dating again. We talked a bit more and I knew that crying and begging was NOT going to work. I said that she was right and that breaking up is probably the best thing for us right now. I told her that we shouldn't talk for the time being. She had trouble hanging up on me and everything. We finally hung up.I made the mistake of being clingy and a few days later I called S and said I didn't mean it when I said we shouldn't talk and I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said yeah.A day after that I started talking to her on Myspace and I asked her if she wanted to hang out Saturday or Sunday and she said neither and I was like wtf? She then got mad for no reason and said how she was never in love with me to begin with and that she was weak and that she just wanted someone to love her. I don't believe this because her friends would tell me how obsessed she was with me when me and her were dating and that she wouldn't shut up about me. I think she was just mad about something else and she just took it out on me. She usually takes her anger out on other people. I then started getting pissed when she said that because I just felt used even though I didn't believe it. and we got into a huge argument and then I said: You know what, your right, I am annoying, I'm going to go now, bye. I signed out. When I signed back on the next day, I noticed that she deleted me off her myspace but she did NOT delete me off her facebook.That was pretty much the last time we talked. Its been several weeks now. Me and S made no contact with each other ever since. Her best friend called me on private at 4 in the morning one day. Lets call her E. (E is also an ex of mine. I dated her before I dated S. S pretty much stole me from her and they would always fight over me and I went with S and it took a while but E finally got over it.) Anyways, E asked me if I was in love with her and I said that I think I was but not for sure. I asked her if S loved me and E said that S would always brag about me and always talked about me while me and S were dating.I asked E if she said anything about me after we broke up. E said that she didn't say much except that I still text and talk to her a lot which I don't. I think S said that to E because I think that S thinks that I'm trying to get back with E which I'm not.I know now that I really do love S and I want her back! I really don't think she meant it when she said she never loved me because one time I was late for our 3rd date and she called the police department to see if there were any accidents because she was worried that I might of gotten into a wreck or died.I'm thinking she just said that because she was in a bad mood.How do I get her back?
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