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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,i went out with this guy but called it off with him because i didnt trust him and some close friends of mine told me that he was still seeing his ex and saw naughty texts from her on his phone.He gives the impression of being so honest and nice and genuine but he is quite manipulative.He is now going out with a close freind of mine who is totally oblivious to what he is like. How can i open her eyes to what he is like? She doesnt talk to me about him and if i did try to tell her, she would probably tell him what i said and accuse me of being jealous. Help!
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reader, kellyO +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Hi,
I understand how u feel i have being in situations like knowing something about a friend's boyfriend and deciding if to tell her or not. In this instance i wouldnt advise u to because as you said he was your ex boyfriend and she might read a wrong meaning into your intentions. It will be wiser to let her get to know him herself and decide for herself what he is like. If u can find out for sure what he is like so will she.
Take care now
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reader, Sweettennisgirl +, writes (18 June 2007):
I think as your a close friend of hers you shud tell her percisely how u feel about this lad and that she shud be careful of him. You dont want her to get hurt so you shud at least warn her before something happens that does hurt her. If she is a true friend she will understand where you are coming from and take in what you say. If she dosent then there is realy nothing much eles you can do as its her choice. Hope this helps! Luv Ali xxxx :)
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