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writes:ill start from the beggining here as i need some advice.me and partner meet six years ago and have had a good relationship with a few minor disagreements but we never argued he did his thing i did mine. we had ourfirst child after a yr and then went on to get engaged and have our second child who my no fault of ours is disabled and will never walk. we started to plan our wedding etc but then things started to turn. we began to argue about silly things etc and he asked for some time alone when he returned after 3 days he ended the relationship with me as he said he went to cheat on me but nothing happened. he is now with this girl they got together 3 days after our split is this really going to be the woman he spends the rest of his life with when he hasnt had no time for himself between relationships. i really love this man and would do anything to get him bak but dont know what to do when he has a girlfriend. he does see his kids and is finacially supporting them well but when he comes over we talk about things and he says things like i love u still, i know ive made a mistake, i hope we can get bak together etc but he says he also loves her but he always comes on to me when hes here what do i do. will he ever choose me again and come bak to us or is it all over now please help me im in a confussed state right now
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reader, melanie  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 sweety forget him. if you take him back hell do the same. but there is a doubt if you dont your always think what would of happen if i had took him back. espeacially if you have kids. if you decide to take him back get him tested for STD's n so you know you cant be inlove with 2 people. hes probably confused. or knows what hes doing n thinks he can get away with it.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Hi,
I'm afraid i have to agree with the other aunt here. You cant do anything about this, It has to come from he. He obviously isnt ready at the moment to give the relationship he has with you another go if he is still involved with another woman. I would like to encourage you for now to focus on rebuilding your life, dreams and being the best mum ever for your children. Let things take a turn by themselves, the path you should take will come clearer really soon by itself.
Goodluck
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 I'm really sorry that you've been treated like this :(
I know you still want to get back together but he's picking you up and dropping you when he feels like it. He wants two ladies at once by the sounds of things. Tell him to either leave you alone or get back with you, not in between. He's messing with your head now because he doesn't know what he wants.
You don't want to be used, you're worth more than all that messing around business.
Look after youself xxxx
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reader, Sweettennisgirl +, writes (18 June 2007):
Hun you shud wake up and smell the coffee! He cant love too people whether he likes it or not and the fact that he comes onto you when hes with you, makes it even worse as he is not only betraing his gf who he "supposedly loves" but he is messing you about to. One minute hes flirting with you telling you that he loves you the next minute hes doing the same thing with his gf!. I think you shud let this man go, there are plenty of men out there that are way better then him!. If he realy wanted you back he wudent be sharing you with another women. Maybe wen he losers you he might then see what he has lost! xxxx
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