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writes:i am in a relationship with a girl.We both shared eveything and were going fine.We were so close that it was impossible to think that we would break up. But when my class 10 results were out, we scored less than we expected (83 / 100 ) ,i was very much depressed and i felt somewhat different.my other frndz went to good colleges and i had to stay in town going to a basic college. Now my aim is to score perfectly in my upcoming exams. Before we met, i used to get 100 % in most of the subjects and this year the turnout was 83% overall. Please tell me how to get over her
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Well, it seems like this girl is the distraction, leaving her would not be the best choice for u as u said, that u are deeply in love with her, so i suggest that you, manage your time carefully with her, spend aboout 2-3 hours with her and then after concetrate on your studies, this is just the case of managing your time, if dont then u may get low results gain, give ur girlfriend some time and yourself some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): What the hell...83%?! If I got 83% it would be a miricle. Obviously this 'low' grade is affecting you. Your not expected to get 100% in everything. No one is unless your doing tests for people 10 years younger than you. I might be missing the point. Your friends got higher grades than yoou and went to good colleges. You had to stay and go to a basic college. After what, one series or even one exam?!Obviously this is a Government thing in India that I would never have heard of. If she makes you happy, then she would up your grades. You said everything was going fine. It was impossible to think that you would break up.If they were to lower your grades you would either be spending too much time with her, as in, too much time. Or thinking about her constantly. These are things that you yourself need to sort out. People with smart grades aren't constantly lonely and die unhappy. If you have actually broken up with her however, you can get over her by getting even more obsessed with your school work than you actually are.By the way, I think thats unhealthy, and I think you should strive to make yourself more of a all-rounder, and actually get out and have a life. Work hard, play hard.
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