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writes: My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife, I lived with them cause my girlfriend kick me up for cheating on her. My bro beat the sh!t out of me (he gave me a black eye) and throw me out. I think he's divorcing her now, He hasn't talked to me since. Im staying with my sister who's the middle of this. I do feel pretty bad about what I did. How can I make up it to my bro ? Reply to this Question
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reader, yowolf39  +, writes (3 December 2009):
ther is no way he will ever forgive you, for some sex you betrayed the bond you had with him, now how does it feel to have lost a brothers love, i would never forgive you, and neither will he.one reason for sure, how could he ever trust you with anything or anyone again.you are a nothing in your brothers eyes and in mine also...........
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 I think you need to keep away from your brother for the time being. I presume you have said you are really sorry and asked for forgiveness and tried to explain to him why it happened. I think the only thing that will lessen your brothers anger and hurt is time. Leave him alone. If you bang into him, if he will listen, tell him again how sorry you are about what you have done. Other than that i would keep well out of his way. Eventually it will turn and he will forgive as blood is thicker than water, but not for a a long while.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 You are a cheat. You cheated on your girlfriend. You slept with your brother's wife and broke up their marriage.
Now unless this thing runs in the family and your brother is as much a low-life as you, I can't see much chance of forgiveness.
Now that you've lost your brother, you're going to have to depend on other people a lot more. In future, try and do the right thing by the people you meet in life. If you continue to cheat, abuse people's trust, and put a few cheap f**ks ahead of anything else, you'll pretty soon find yourself shunned by everyone around you. Not much of a life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): I am sorry to say I don't think he will ever forgive you.
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reader, SinVA +, writes (15 November 2008):
Shit. How could you screw your brothers wife! Come on man!
Your brother would have to be a better man than me to ever forgive you. That was a sacred bond of trust you broke, and you will never get that back. Maybe, MAYBE he will forgive you one day but I doubt he will ever view you truly as his brother again.
I don't know what to tell you man, if you are truly sorry than understand what you did was incredibly f--cked up, and that you deserved to get your ass kicked. The only way I can see him forgiving you is if he meets somone else who he likes more than his ex-wife and gets married and eventually sees what you did as a rough but necessary step to meet his new wife.
Regardless, WHAT THE HELL MAN! ITS YOUR BROTHER WIFE!!
goodluck
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reader, BlueCherry  +, writes (15 November 2008):
 Really? that's a very bad situation to be in. You already did him a favor by showing him that his "wife" was not worth it and has a brother he can't trust.
You don't screw your family like that, you just don't.
Hope that one day he will consider seeing your face around, if not, move on. You broke his family and trust.
Hope the sex was good.
Cheers!
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