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*uganya
writes:Hi friend, Please help me out to come out of prob. My boy friend always want to have sex with me. We had it but, it makes me feel he is with me only for my physic. when ever i call him or he calls me he used to talk about sex and sex only. in fact i like that, but not often. i used to tell him that not only the sex makes the life perfect and i believe in that. but he is entirely opposite and says that we will be having only for 20 or 25 more yrs and after tat our energy will go off and he says that we have to utilize it as possible as we can. Reply to this Question
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reader, suganya +, writes (17 March 2010):
suganya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi my dear friend, First of all I wanna thank u so much for taking your own precious time for to me to solve my problem. I feel that your solution will help me. Thanks a million for u r kind solution Take Care may the joy rules your life.
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Suganya
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): By him telling you that he is trying to control you. Its a control technique. Talking about sex all the time is Okay if you and your partner are comfortable about that type of situation. However sounds to me like your doubting yourself so therefore change the topic. But telling you that for the next 25 years then it slows down is total BS. Cause at that point in life is when most women reach there Peak and are Alot more Hornier. Men are to... He is trying to control you. Mentally do not let him..
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reader, veronika  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 It sounds like you two have different sex drives, which is quite normal for couples. Some have higher sex drives, some have lower sex drives.
Think about why you don't want to have sex as often as he does. Is it just natural, or do you work a lot, do you study a lot, are you often under stress? Things like that can contribute to people's sex drive being low, however some people just naturally have a lower sex drive than their partner.
I would suggest a compromise, because it seems a shame to break up just because you have different libidos.
When you say he wants to have it often, how often? Several times a day? Or once a day? Several times a week?
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