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writes:my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love him very much. from his last relationship he had taken on her son who is now sixteen.(last relationship ended ten years ago)this son is always giveing me grief. he has stolen and has no manners. my boyfriend always backs him up. this exs son doesnt live with us, but stays every 2 weeks 4 a weekend. this is makeing my life hell. Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
 You need to talk to your boyfriend. He needs to know your feelings, and most of all something needs to be done about the stealing. Your boyfriends step-son doesnt live there therefore he shouldnt have that much to do with your relationship, but if he still decides to dislike you, you will need to ignore him. I hope i helped. Mail me if you want to talk x
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (10 July 2007):
 I tend to disagree with the lady before me. I have been in this position but on the other side. It was my son and he was driving my ex-partner mad. He stole from him and was really awfull to me as well. There were times when I wanted to kill him he caused so much trouble.
He was 15 when he first ran away, which broke my heart, but pleased my boyfriend. The fact was my boyfriend made no attempt to get on with my son and always made him feel in the way.
When we finally split up (not due to my son). My son told me how he had felt living with him.
He is now 20 years old and has really turned his life around. I am so proud of him. He even talks to my Ex.
He was trying to get attention thats all. So be carefull not to make your partner think he has to choose, between you both.
Try to be patient, he will grow up eventually. And then be sorry.
Take care XX
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
It is nice your boyfriend has kept in touch with his step son, but he is sixteen now and stealing from you at his age is digusting you are allowing him into your home to spend weekends he should be enjoying it not abusing it!!!!
Has he not got a job, a girlfriend etc????????
I know you love your boyfriend and you don't want to hurt him as he looks at his step son as a real son, but you need to tell him you can not put up with this anymore you have been together now for 5 years and would do anything to please him, it works both ways hun, he should be backing you up not the 16 year old who is making life hell for you all......
I hope you and your boyfriend work this out but stand by your word here....
You sound like an understanding lady and because you love your boyfriend your prepaired to open your arms to his step son but not at this cost....
Wish you happier weekends where he can come and have fun instead of creating merry hell!!!!!!!!
All the best babes let me know how you get on
Love Donna xx
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