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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help guys! My boyfriends porn is 75% big girlsI'm 105lbs, A cup, attractive, and have decent confidence, but I'm starting to get worried about what he's attracted to. He says he only looks at big girls 10% of the time because he feels like they would be lucky to have him (he's athletic build) but it's more like 75% of the time. I've come upon his porn by accident twice and told him (big girls both time, like 180lbs+). He was embarrassed, but said it was my build he was attracted to. I just came upon it again and it was big girls again, so I decided to snoop (I know, it's wrong) but I want to know if he's really attracted to me. Not that I have anything against big girls, because everyone likes something different, but am I what he wants? Why does he look at something so different??? Please Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Sorry Ms anonymous but your answer is illogical..
"men are NEVER satisfied with what they have." if this statement is true, then surely we can't expect men to EVER respect women.
"any man who isnt satisfied with the woman he has enough to feel (no desire to ogle others) has no right to the wife or girlfriend he has"... but by your previous statement, no man should ever have a girlfriend or a wife, because ALL MEN, are never satisfied with what they have...
When will women like you learn to think more logically and stop making random stupid statements. ALL MEN are different, ALL WOMEN are different. Untill you have lived and slept with every man in the world, I suggest that you keep your ill informed comments to yourself.... Unfortunately, you are not God, and you cannot command people to live alone in misery just because somebody once hurt you...
Dear question asker, Uncle Phil, is being very truthfull and trying to help you. You are upset cause he looks at big girls, some women are upset because their partners look at ugly girls, white girls, old women, young women...... The advice is always the same. Pornography is fantasy, it has nothing to do with real life. He looks at women that are different so he dosen't compare them with you. He has respect and love for you. He looks at women that are different because you are the real thing, your the woman that he loves, you are the woman he adores. Men play computer games that have killing and guns, but in real life they love peace and hate war. Men pretend to be James Bond, but they would rather stay at home and hold their girlfriends tight. It's fantasy babes, not real life. If he was looking at women that looked like you, you would feel insulted and say.. "why dose he like women that look like me, dose he want to replace me, why look at pictures and video's when he can get the real thing." Nobody wants to be Cinderella, but we love reading her story. Julia Roberts in "pretty woman~" was a prostitute, we love the film, but don't really want to live like the character in the film.. Pure fantasy, stop looking for deeper meanings, cause it means nothing at all.. Stop worrying about these things...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): all uncle phil is doing is confirming what most of us women already suspected.......men are NEVER satisfied with what they have......no matter how beautiful their wife or girlfriend their always looking elsewhere.....any man who isnt satisfied with the woman he has enough to feel (no desire to ogle others) has no right to the wife or girlfriend he has ...women deserve much more respect than this.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Why does he look at something so different? - simply because they're different to you. If he was living with a big girl he's be looking at people with figures like yours.
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