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writes:the other night i slept around my boyfriends house and brought a bottle of vodka with me the next day i forgot to take it home and my boyfriends dad found it and now hates me how can i regain his trust i know it was my fault but i dont know what to do please help me xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 What's the drinking age in the UK? In Canada (most provinces), its 19... If you are 18 - 21, which your profile suggests, I am inclined to think this father is over-reacting. But I don’t know his side of the story…Maybe he thinks his son has a drinking problem and he is concerned you may not be a good influence? Maybe the drinking age is higher or your age is posted incorrectly… I don’t know.
At any rate, CaringGuy is right. The best way to earn his trust back is to go to him and apologize. Explain that you are disheartened by losing his trust and that you are sorry to have broken any rules he had in his house. Tell him that his sin is important to you and that you will work to regain his trust.
Do not expect acceptance right away.
Good luck.
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reader, girlintheballetpumps +, writes (5 October 2009):
Bring him out for dinner
Show him that you really are a good girl
buy the meal and by the end of the night
he will have forgiven you one million times
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
By not drinking at all again. Say that you're sorry and that you'll prove that you're a great girl if he's willing to start trusting you with his son. Other than that, nothing.
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