My boyfriends best female friend hates me, but he never sticks up for me!

sorry this is so long but here goes: me and my bf have been together for about 2 months now. he is a senior (18) and im a sophomore (15). we went to six flags together last night. he used his best friends season pass and parking pass so he wouldnt have to pay to get in. he invited his best friend, sarah* (18), to come with us but she refused. she said "i dont want to go because shes going" she, meaning me. my bf told her that she could bring whoever she wanted with us, he said to invite the guy she is currently involved with, mike*, but she still said no. she said "i guess u just cant see it like i do. i dont want to go because shes going to be with you." i found out that she said this on our way there. my bf said "i feel bad. i wanted her to come with us. i wanted her to bring mike. i feel like i just used her so i wouldnt have to pay to get in" i said "well idk why she didnt just come. sounds to me like she wants you." he just shrugged. so we changed the conversation. then later he said "i feel bad cuz sarah isnt here... we were supposed to do this together" i said "she shouldve come" then we dropped it again. when we were going to leave, she told him to bring her passes back to her tonight. so we met her in the parking lot of our school. we were just being silly, driving really fast around the parking lot for a while then she got out of her car, came to the window of his and he gave her passes back to her. i noticed that she had a huge hickie on her neck so when we were pulling out i was like "babe she had a huge hickie on her neck!" and just laughed. he texted her immediately saying " Heather said you have a big ass hickie on your neck!" she replied "heather can go f*** herself and yes i do" all he said was "ok?" and he continued to talk to her on the drive home, saying things like "i thought u werent going to mikes today blah blah blah" i sat in the passenger seat just looking out the window. he asked me what was wrong and i said "that just bothers me that she has a problem with me. i dont even know her" he said "exactly. u dont know her. so who cares" i said "idk it just bothers me that ur best friend wont hang out with you if im there." this turned into an argument and i had to comvince him to come back to my house with me. everything was good while we were there but after he left, my best girl friend called me saying ktell ur bf to stop txting me" they had had a short fling last year so it always bothers me when he talks to her. he said to her "wana do something? i dont feel like sitting at home..." i immediately called him and told him that that was very disrespectful towards me. he doesnt allow me to hang out with guys, ever. so i expect that he doesnt hang out with girls. we started fighting about this, him saying it was stupid that he couldnt hang out with girls. i said "well want me to chill with guys then?" and he said "whos more likely to try something? a guy or girl? guys will try something with you if u hang out with them. but whatever i dont care. do what you want. if u do anything with them its over. im not talking about this anymore. dont call me i wont answer tonight. i will talk to u 2moro." and i hung up. it is now the next morning and i havent heard from him. theres a couple questions i have here, why is his best friend sarah acting like this and why didnt he say anything to her about her having a prob with me? and why did he end up showing no "protection" over me? this makes me feel like he doesnt care. am i just being dramatic please help

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