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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me. I don't know why, I know he's not cheating because it's usually at his house with his grandma there and she would never allow that to go on. And when they do go out several of my friends (I don't put them up to it) have seen him with his guy friends only.Why does he enjoy spending so much time with them? And he does want to be with me, in this relationship, so don't draw that conclusion.Every time I hang ot with my boyfriend and his friends or when I call him and they are there they are so mean to me! I work with one and am friends with one, but that all changes when we are all together...why is this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): My daughter has the same problem with her boyfriend. It's a boy thing.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 That's teenage boys for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's 19 lol. So you really think he does love me? We hardly get to spend time with each other. And all he talks about is getting married and growing old. I just don't understand...
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (17 April 2009):
Because he is a young man and he can talk about boy stuff with them like: Football, Xbox/PS3/Wii, farting, girls, cars, being mean to each other, and such like, all the kinds of thing you would disapprove of!
He does love you, but there is only so much "snuggling", planning for the future, watching amilie, and saying cutesie things a guy can do.
I'm sorry sweetheart we love our girlfriends when we are 18 but, our guy friends are cooler!
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