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*oundmyheart
writes:My boyfriend works with his ex-girlfriend and she still calls him e-mails him and texts him. He has told her to move on but she wont. It has been almost a year since they parted. This is still very disturbing to me. It would do him no good tho change his number because the new one has to be accessable due to the nature of his job. She broke his heart and it took him a while to get over her. What should I do? Am I overreacting? Please help !!! Thank you !
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): Well, speaking from experience, i can understand just how you feel. It nearly drove me mad until my bloke finally got a job elsewhere and we were able to move on. But, never ever bad mouth her to him. Listen to what he has to say, agree, but leave bad opinions out. If he can ignore her calls, ask her to stop ringing, emailing etc and the whole thing will bore her stiff and she will stop eventually. But try and stay calm, i know it is not easy. But don't, under any circumstances, let her split you two up. Be strong.
Take care
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 I don't think you're overracting, it's hard for anyone to accept that they're partner has been happy with someone else, never mind if they see them and communication on a daily basis! I don't blame you for being like this: even if I trusted him completely, I'd still be angry about this.
However, there's not much you can do really. I don't advise you getting involved, as that will complicate things. You need to sort your man out and get him to do something about it. He can change jobs if it's causing that much trouble? If he cares for you, he will do something about this. If that's not possible, he at least needs to speak to this girl and let her know the score. If she contacts him, he must ignore her and she'll soon get bored.
She probably wants to causr problems for you two so don't let this break you up. Talk to him and work out how you can get rid of this girl together and be stronger in the end. If he will not do anything about it, maybe you need to ask yourself why?
Good luck
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