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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and he won't tell me why he loves me. I think that he does, but he refuses to even try to tell me and it bothers me because it makes me wonder what separates me from one of his girl friends. It really bothered me and I told him that it did, but he still won't answer. I put myself out there by telling him and it hurts that he won't do the same for me. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if this is something that I should genuinely be worried about. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): I totally agree with qcumbr1 but hey he wouldn't be or rather shouldn't be having sex with one of his other girl friends.There's a way to get this guy around.Stop telling him that you love him.Stop asking him for reassurances as to why he loves you.practicing unconditional love is difficult.But next time let him be the one to ask if you love him or not.Human mind works differently.It always ignores what it has and goes on to seek what it doesn't have.if you really love this guy take a deep breath and tell this out loud,"My love is strong enough for both of us.It doesn't matter whether he loves me or not.I would still love him and be there for him".If you start practicing this kind of unconditional love even the hardest of the hearts can be won over.All the best dear.
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