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writes: hi my boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job, i've never done this bfore and i'm really nervous has anyone got any tips???
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reader, Orkcus  +, writes (26 April 2010):
Well, it can be a very nice experience but is one that needs to be practiced to ensure that. However, don't forget that oral sex has its dangers and these problems may not show up for a long time so be careful and if you want to understand the medical aspects better then put
-link between oral sex and cancer- into your Google search bar.
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (17 June 2006):
 I love wendys wanking tips lol i think she has pretty much covered everything...little tip they like it when you suck on their balls and lick the little bit just between the balls and the bum (perenium)...trust me, its always a winner! lolhappy sucking! ;)
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reader, willywombat +, writes (7 June 2006):
 This is gonna sound bizzare, but can I ask what makes a bad blow job? Genuinely - being female it would be good to know!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (7 June 2006):
 Thanks Dr Pete, but well I guess I always thought a man was happy to be getting one! Cant really see what would make a bad one unless you use your teeth! Ouchie!! ;o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006): There's no such thing as a bad blowjob!? Sorry WendyG but you are very much mistaken! Bad blowjobs really are... bad.
WendyG does give a remarkably good account of giving a blowjob though, I would agree with everything she has said ;)
Most important thing ever is to not feel scared to check with your boyfriend if you are doing it "right" and which bits he doesn't like. After lots of experimentation you will perfect the art and you'll be great at it.
I hope he is doing the same for you ;)
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (7 June 2006):
well you dont need to worry too much as there is no such thing as a bad blowjob! hooray! Generally the fact that you are doing it is enough! guys like it quite 'wet' so be prepared to use lots of saliva or if you dont like that idea use some flavoured enhancers that act as a lubricant and taste nice too! You should put one hand at the bottom of his Penis and hold it not too firmly (your not trying to strangle anything) this is so as to stimulate him more but also so you can control how far you want it in your mouth! Then basically give him a hand job but put your mouth on top, and move in and out. If your jaw starts to ache or you get a bit bored don't be afraid to stop and vary it with licking his penis or his balls and then go back to sucking. They like a bit attention to the head so a swirling of the tongue is always good, and try to vary the sucking, and the movement of your hand, move the penis in and out of your mouth whilst wanking, or just hold the penis whilst taking some into your move and moving back and fourth, but if they go in tandem thats also good. All you need to consider is whether you are going to swallow or not... a little tip is that things taste sweeter at the back of the tongue rather than the front, we use the back taste buds for tasting slightly sweeter things, if you dont want to swallow get him to tell you when he is near and to move and allow him to ejaculate somewhere like over your breasts! Also ask him what he likes whilst your doing it and if there is anything that you are doing that he likes more and carry on from there.
Good luck!x
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