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writes:My boyfriend wants me 2 stay with him while he goes to the army but the thing is... I can wait and I really do love him, I will just miss him so much... He wants to be with me forever all my mates say they think he really does love me but I'm just so scared of him getting hurt.I said that I didn't mind him going to the army because I want him to make his own desisions. I just don't want him getting hurt.I also have only been in 1 serious relationship that only lasted 1 year.Someone please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (6 March 2008):
 I agree that you need to tell him how you are feeling; there is nothing wrong with that and it is necessary. As the other poster also said you do need to sit down and seriously think things through; this isn't going to be easy but it is possible. I think that if your feelings for him are that strong then you will possibly regret not at least trying. Also seek solace in your friends and let them be there for you while you adjust to all this. Good luck :).
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
Babe it is understandable that you would miss him, its a humans natural emotion!! As long as you let him know that your fears are him being hurt, and (as long as you think you can dedicate your whole future to him) let him know you will always be there for him. Prepare yourself for him going, fighting for his country! It is such a hard decision for you at such a young age, to decide wether or not to stay with him.. You need to take a lot of time to think about it!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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