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anonymous
writes: Hello, I split up from my husband 2 years ago but the divorce has just been finalised. We had been together for 5 years but have fallen out of love. He was the only man I had ever been with. For the last two years I have been very depressed, but last week I went out with my friends clubbing and met a man. I was really drunk and invited him back. The thing is, in the morning my friends asked if anything happened with him but I can't remember and I thought surely I would know if I had sex - I would have felt it because I hadn't had sex for two years. Plus my sex life with my husband was very poor and I was always in pain. I'm 25 years old but I just wanted to know if it would be like losing my virginity again after two years. thank u x
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reader, smeedle +, writes (26 February 2006):
You would not necessarily know if you had had sex it would depend on how gentle he was and how drunk you were.
My guess is that both of you were so drunk that nothing other than a drunken fumble and sleep happened.
But just in case you need to get the morning after pill or if this is too late, then get a pregnancy test done to be on the safe side.
Sounds to me like you are over your marriage and ready for another go at having fun, only take care and keep safe, good luck and enjoy yourself.
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