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writes: My bf and I have been together almost 3 years. Originally our sex life was amazing. Recently (past 4 months) it hasn't. In fact, asked bf and he in uninterested in sex. At all. It's down to once a week. And personally i think that's only because he feels pressured to do so. He says he doesn't even feel like masturbating anymore - which is the opposite of myself because I'm getting desperate. There are no fantasies he wants me to act out because he says he doesn't have any. Overall sex is ok, I'm used to what he does now so cumming is easy. I wanted to explore new things - get some books and games - but he doesn't seem interested in that either. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2006): there are lots of reasons why people go off sex. i know how you feel though. me and my other half didn't have sex for a full 12 months because he didn't want to. now it's been another 3 months! but anyway, i don't know if trying new stuff is going to be worth it if he's not interested in sex at all. try working up to it again. tantric sex is a good start as it builds your trust and confidence with each other. you can start with simple exercises with each other, don't have to be full sex, and work up slowly. once you've got your "normal" sex back then go on to something more exotic. but if he feels pressured into having plain old sex with you, you won't help by pressuring him into anything more risque
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reader, mystify +, writes (19 February 2006):
 maybe he is somewhat depressed, not because of sex butgenereally for some reason, it can have an effect on your libido, its worth looking into
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