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writes: I have boyfriend for 2 years. I'm 17. We just learn in the university. Before that, I met him about 5 day per week and phone every day. Now, when I call him he always says " I'm very busy I will call back " But he never called. I very serious. I don't know what happen. I ask him about this problem and he said "Nothing happen". I miss him every day. I don't know How did he feel, now ? Please tell me what question that I should ask him for this problem. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2005): If you have any concerns about your love relationship with him you do have a right to ask him. In a respectful thoughtful manner..you could write him a nice card and tell him how you are confused by the situation (his being too busy to talk) and want to know what is happening. plain and simple. Since you are a part of the relationship you have every right to know your status. His answer or lack of answer to your card will help you decide how you should go about your own business. Try not spending too much time worrying about what he is doing. Stand up for yourself and your feelings and hopefully things will work out well for you both. Good Luck.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (20 July 2005):
He is probably busy with his university work and possibly, new friends that he has made there.
Talk to him and tell him how you feel, hopefully he will begin to make more time for you once he knows how you feel.
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