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writes: my b/f wants to go camping in the woods by himself for a few days or a week..he says its a place where there is no reception. I am actually a little worried into thinking what if he goes camping for a few days but then leaves early to go to las vegas or something or meet a friend somewhere and not tell me and party for a few days. Would anyone else be a little concerned about this??--a week with contact so that means he could possibly leave after 3 days of camping and then fly out somewhere or meet his friends somewhere else or something and not tell me b/c he wants to party without having to talk to me for a whole week. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Oh yes, there are way too many possibilities. Surely if you induce paranoia, then paranoia swallows you whole and you would think and think and question and question whether he would do this and that. It's possible he's jetting off to Rome, cruising to Hawaii, skiing in Whistler, and possibly even scuba diving in Australia, but what is the chance he is going camping, fishing, and possibly some hiking with the bears and sasquatches? What is that possibility? [ponders] Hmmm...
And say he does choose to go partying, clubbing, possibly even have a drive around the neighborhood and visit some friends and such, so what? Are you trying to control his life? You're surely worried, but you're worried due to one or a combination of the following: A) you're insecured, B) you doubt him more than you trust him, and/or C) you want him 100% of the time and wish he has absolutely no interest in females excluding you...
It's fine to think and worry, but try not to over-do it. It just adds stress and tension.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 He can do whatever he chooses whenever he chooses. PERIOD. How do you know he's not meeting some foxy female fur trapper in her cozy lodge. Maybe he's meeting Jennifer Lopez....The possibilities are endless....OR...maybe he's going CAMPING !!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): it just made me think that..b/c a week without contact..he can easily say its camping the whole time..but he could spend like 3 days camping and then go somewhere else which can include any party spots.
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reader, charly16  +, writes (6 March 2007):
Girl if youre asking yourself that then somewhere somewthings going wrong.tell me, whuy dont u trust him? email me back and tellme why you think this is so dodgy.
It may be that he just needs a bit of freedom b4 he comes whizzing back 2 you.
btw how old are you?
xcx
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reader, eddie +, writes (6 March 2007):
This is strange. Why Las Vegas, why not Rome or Miami. Perhaps Fiji. What details are you leaving out. If you just expect an answer based on this information, there's something wrong. What leads you to think this way? Please respond.
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