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writes:Sorry if this is complicated. Ok I have sort of got myself into a paranoid mess, a few weeks back I split up with my girlfriend, basically everytime i was with her and he found out he would come to my house and start questioning me about it and threatening me. This was really starting to annoy my dad, (who is one big guy) and wouldnt think twice about hitting him, so i sent an e-mail to my girlfriend asking her if she could try and stop him coming to my house so he wouldnt get hurt (because she still spoke to him). She then accused me of acting like a 3 year old, getting involved in petty arguments and refused to talk to me. About 2 weeks went by and I got text off her saying she was sorry and can we meet up, so i did and by the first day we were hugging again, the 2nd day we were kissing and by the 3rd day we was both getting naked in my bed. My question being is she just using me for sex or was she really sorry, how can i tell?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): I would imagine there was some genuine feelings there, but the whole thing sounds like a mess to me and you are going to end up getting hurt further if you keep "meeting up" or hooking up with her....if I were in your shoes, I would be looking for a better girlfriend.
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reader, charly16 +, writes (6 March 2007):
Firstly:do you really want 2 be with her?You gotta make sure that you want her back.
Secondly:its up 2 you 2 trust her.Coming from a girls point of view I wud say that u need 2 decide 4 yourself whether or not shes really sorry. I think you need to know whether or not she likes this other guy before u can really be sure that shes coming back 2 you properly and not just 4 sex!Personally it sounds 2 quick so I dont trust her but then again I dont know her like you do.
Good luck mate, if it goes well then let me know
xcx
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