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female
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36-40,
*opelessromantic1
writes:Dear Cupid,Me and my boyfriend have been dating close to 8 months now. he is 35 and im 21, but age doesnt seem to be a problem because we both agree its just simply a number and we both love each other. Anyway some of the stuff he does sort of bothers me a little..like for instance, he is a bit of a flirt when it comes to women, but he claims its nothing and that "thats the guy thing" I love him, and just hope im not way in over my head on this one!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (27 April 2010):
 hmmm i think hes to old for you your both n two diffrent phases of life i think he just enjoys having a barely legal GF he probably would go for 18 if he could.
as for the flirting i think its natural to some extent its kind of fun, and even if you have a gf and you have no intrest in nooking up with the girl your flirtng with girls like compliments so you could say something nice that makes their day.
But on the other hand relationships arent written in stone hes with you today but maybe not tomorrow so he could also be putting in work keeping his options open in case things dont work out.
honestly i wouldnt worry about it unless you see signs of him actually cheating.
its also fun flirting when your not single because it like you see a hot girl she expects you to drool over her but your just playing around you allready have someone
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Not all guys behave this way. It's his thing and if he loves you, he needs to learn how to curb his urges.
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