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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello all, first time so thanks in advance for your thoughts. I caught my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years reading my internet chat logs behind my back... I was really upset and felt like he invaded my privacy (although, in honesty I have nothing to hide). I had let slip that one of my acquaintances had said something negative about him. He said he was looking in the logs to find what this person wrote. It wouldn't be so bad, but lately we've fought a lot... For instance he lied to me about a weekend when he was looking at porn online (we have an understanding about that- and he had agreed he wouldn't do it). Then he lied about it. I feel like my trust has been damaged to the point that it might be irreparable. I love him and I want to make it work, but I can't do it on my own!
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (1 July 2007):
You say that you love him, But love isn't about having everything our own way, And when you have so called friends on the WeB, who put him down,and you feed into that,if you do. Then Sweetheart don't talk about trust because you don't have very much of that to brag about. As for porno, In a shared setting, It can be helpful in improving the sexual relationship. Perhaps you both need to look at what love is all about from a Chrstian Perspective, not in self-centeredness. Do hope things work out for you, but then it will take the two of you to do that.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hia babe, as im sure you know, trust is very important in a relationship and he has breached your trust.. do you want to take it within yourself to forgive him? Yes he has lied, but is he generally looking at your logs, to protect you, and trying not to upset you by lying about porn because he didnt want to annoy you.. up to you babe.. mail me if u wana talk x x x x
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