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anonymous
writes:I need some advice regarding my sex life with my boyfriend. We live together and have decent jobs.Our sex life is usually very good, and he does whatever I want, and I do whatever he wants (within limits, as long as it's safe!)However, for the past few weeks, our sex life has gone from really passionate to a washout, as my boyfriend refuses to have any sex with me unless rope is involved somehow. He said he'll do anything I want as long as rope's involved. I've told him I'm not sure about this, but he accused me of being uptight.We still do have sex, although not often now due to his recent obsession with rope during sex. He even sleeps with a piece of rope next to him in bed!I asked him why rope was so important, and all he said was "IT JUST IS!! ROPE IS FUN!!!"I don't know how to cope - this is embarrassing for me to deal with, please help, thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Hi
don't get tied up in this nonsense....its knot good to walk a tight rope...It's knotting but momsense entwined you sorted this ropey situation out!
via con dios.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): I think this sounds like he is getting attention via the rope - that is to say the more weird and obsessed he gets the more attention it gets. Unfortunately so far you have played into his hands. My advice is to ignore the rope and be disinterested in it. Explain that it does nothing for you but you respect his interest in it. Thay way his self obsession with it may just burn itself out. You could always tell him you're at the end of your rope with the whole thing?! (sorry.. terrible and not funny :-()but sometimes the only thing left could be humour.
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