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writes: My boyfriend cannot come unless it is through anal sex. If we have vaginal sex he will not come. And even this takes a long time before he gets to that point. Well, recently he expressed to me that this has never happenned to him before. So I started to wonder is it me? Is it something Iam not doing? He says if he masturbates he comes quickly. He is suffering from a mental condition-bipolar. However, he was not on the medication until recently so i can't attribute this to the medication. I asked him what he likes and he gets very aroused and does get an erection but he just does not come. I have never had a problem like this or should I say a complaint like this. I have always been able to sexually satisfy my partner. So even though I questioned if it were something I'm doing I don't see how it could be me. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Go see a counsellor. Contarary to popular belief not all bi polars are violent, and you said he has now started taking medication. Just lie back and enjoy someone with staying power. He can always finish himself off by hand.
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reader, pops +, writes (8 October 2005):
Unless he gets to a professional mental health counselor, who can delve into what his problem is, who could possibly guess. I can think of half a dozen reasons why he might be having this problem, but would not be able to narrow it down unless I talked to him long. There is nothing physical wrong with him if he can masturbate to climax. It is therefore a problem between his ears. And, you say he is bi-polar, but he isn't getting treatment? Why would you be having anything to do with him in the first place? He is being very irresponsible in not taking medication for his condition. He can be prone to violent outbursts, and can hurt the people nearest him, without taking his drugs. No wonder he won't find out what his problem is with sex. Don't make this your problem. Move on. Find another guy who is not carrying so much personal baggage into a relationship. This guy is appealing to your maternal instincts and you naturally want to help him. He is totally self centered and self absorbed. You can't help him. Find someone who can help you, instead.
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