A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am dating this guy about one month and a half, I'm 21 and he his 28, at first things were going really good, we went out like 2 times a week and we spoke every day at night. But now, we are like 3 or 4 days without talking, I sent him message's and he doesn't answer, and the he call's me saying he had a hard week at work, or something, and he's acting all normal. We are together and everything's normal, he still act's like the best guy ever, he makes cd's for me, and all sort's of things, never speaks about ending this, but, he is capable of not saying a word the next 2, 3 or 4 days. What should I do? I really like him, and being with him, but he really makes me insecure.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 he communicates differently to you. He works hard. And possibly still likes to see work friends after work. He's not monopolising your every minute. He gives you a little space. Because he has trust that you and he are a couple.
What an absolute darling making you music cds. That is so sweet. He may take ages just choosing the right tracks.
He's not quite marriage material yet. He is not yet seeking more and more time with you.
It may be a clue that he likes you even more when he frequently chooses to spend more and more time with you.
Perhaps put a bit of excitement into this relationshop.
Think of some nice things you can do to give him a great experience. Such as make up a basket with nice goodies in it. All finger food. Go somewhere pretty and special. Lay a rug on the ground. unpack the lunch basket, filled with goodies you made, and feed him with someing nice to eat, followed by a kiss. Repeat until all the lunch is gone.
He's the 'best guy'
So cherish him.
His only problem is that he doesn't do 'chit.chat'
Work on your own self esteem and value who you are. Then you'll be able to see that he is indeed a good guy
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