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anonymous
writes:Can someone please try and explain whats going on for me?I'm 25 year old male and have a 17 year old female friend that i've 'kinda been seeing'...we talk on msn nearly every night and meet up every week or two (she lives about 15miles from me).My question(s) are...We're definately friends, and she must want to be friends - because we msn and meet up, going to cinema and stuff.But does she want more than friends?When i've stayed at hers (when her mum's away) or she's stayed at mine - we share a bed...cuddling etc.If she wants more than friends - then why when we do 'exploring' and stuff does she want me to stop when it starting to 'feel good' for her?If she doesn't want more than friends - then why has she not taken me up on the offer of me sleeping on the floor, or asked me to sleep in the spare room at hers?!Confusing huh? Well it is for me anyway!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (30 May 2006):
 She enjoys your company, she enjoys all the things you do together. Cuddling and holding each other is very intimate for a couple to do. She's not ready yet to take it further, there shouldnt be any pressure on her, she likes you alot, and knows she can trust you in her bed, that says a lot doesnt it ? that she can cuddle and hold you safe in the knowledge that if she doesnt want to go further you wont push her. Give her time, she is in to you, she just needs her own time for things, maybe she has never had a sexual relationship before and shes taking it steady. Maybe even ask her, let her know its not that bigger deal, but you would like to know if you are more than friends but there is no pressure for sex, but you are curious as to why you dont go any further than petting. But dont pressure her, just be cool and have fun, when shes ready she will let you know.
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reader, Tilly1983 +, writes (30 May 2006):
 firstly she is 17 so she is unsure of what she wants! secondly she is prob scared of taking things to far!
I would just be friends do not initiate "exploring" be patient and if you two are ment to be it will work out
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