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writes:ok.. so i have a problem with my boyfriend. He's got a lot of "girl" freinds, but that part doesn't bother me. ( i have a few guy freinds myself)What does bother me is that when he meets someone new or someone he hasn't seen or talked to in a long time, he tells them he's single, even though he's with me, just to see how far he can go. I've been with him for over a year, and i really truly love him, but that, plus the fact that he says he doesn't know how to treat someone as a girlfreind, and the fact that he treats all his "girl" frinds more like a girlfreind than me, it all just really hurts. I just want him to treat me as a girlfreind, and to respect me. But how do i get him to do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, romany  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 You can't change anyone, they need to do it, and if enjoys being the total asshole he is being, then he aint gonna change.
It would seriously piss me off that he likes to see how far he can go with these new girls, and also that his female friends are treated like girlfriends, my only advice would be is to make him realise how he is going to lose you if he dont stop his ways, if he dont, you got to ask yourself, can you continue to feel like this, is he really that great that you can carry on feeling this worthless, for the foreseeable future, (or until you find out he isn't all mouth and he is actually a womaniser) if you can, your a better woman than me, I'd kick his ass and if that didnt work, i'd walk.
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