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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now and we live together. Lately, he has been hiding his cellphone from me and when he gets calls he claims to not know who is calling. Not only that, hes been texting like crazy but hides it all from me. I recenntly looked through his phone(I know that was wrong but I had to find out) and saw some text messages from another women who he had said was someone else.Now he deletes all his messages before he gets home. He also started talking to his ex again. He told me that he hated her and did not want anything to do with her but I saw her number on his calling list. I know the way he is and he is a huge flirt. he is sweet on them telling them how great they look and calls them baby girl or sweetheart. I have tried to talk about it with him but he avoids and ignores everything I have to tell him. All he says is that he comes home to me everyday. Am i just being paranoid or should I just let it all go because no matter what I do, I can't control who he talks to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Sorry but sounds like he is chasing after other women with the intention of having an affair, or is already having an affair.
The fact that he hides his phone, has had loads of text from another woman, deletes his history before he gets home are all signs that things are leaning towards an affair.
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reader, FallenAngel19 +, writes (15 January 2010):
no girl.. i been there like to an exact and i let it play out.. end it asap, dont get hurt and dont let it keep going. he wants other girls. and he wants you. he just isn't ready to settle down with one girl and he doesn't think that he should have to. im still with the guy that did that to me and we been together for almost 4 years.. he still does it and we have a year old son. dont put yourself through it. it makes you feel sick but then you can't say anything because he will guilt you into it and play it safe and say your the only one that matters but they are just for fun. it will only hurt yourself and make you feel sick and you will have to drop everyone but he wont.. its up to you just i care about this stuff and i dont want any girl to get hurt from it..
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