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anonymous
writes:Today at night I received a message from our mutual friend that my bf was flirting and kissing with women at some party. Not a woman but women.I am pretty hurt. We had a good relationship but last three weeks he behaved really weird. He didn't want sex sometimes, he pushed me away sometimes. He didn't answer my phone - and no I don't keep texting or calling him, I sent no more than one message per day. He also started to get texts at night and a lot of texts during the day. Firstly I thought he was tired because of work then I asked whether there was something wrong or whether I did something wrong, he told no and then he got angry - this was last week.I am at home learning for my final exams, he didn't msg me for three days and while ago he just sent me some drunk text. I can't do anything I am just crying.I don't get it,I feel bad. What to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2013): thank you for your answer, I just couldn't sleep the whole night, I really don't get it, but I decided that I would eventually ignore him if he msg me
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (24 May 2013):
 Hi
His timing is really bad, you need to focus on your final exams, not him.
I would put him out of your mind,no more contact, hard I know, but you can sort out him/you after your studies have finished.
You get one go at these exams,its the culmination of years of your hard work but there are plenty of guys in the world. He, at the moment is behaving badly and he knows the pressure your under, so it's totally selfish.
So,leave him to hang himself and focus on you and your future. If he texts you, ignore it.
Good luck with the exams
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2013): Focus on your studies and give your boyfriend the boot. Right now make school your priority, and get through your exams.
He out carrying on with other women and showing you disrespect.
Let him go, you have better things to do with your time and you deserve better.
As we say in America, "kick him to the curb!"
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