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writes: My boyfriend is driving me crazy! He has recently moved into my home...not even settled yet. He wants to hang out with his friends..but they seem to be all women. I have no problem with the ones that are mutual friends who are not afraid to call or visit but he decided to go to this party without me. I didn't want to go. I had talked to the woman that was having the party and she told me that he likely would be the only guy there, we had a little giggle about it and agreed that he liked that. I was feeling pretty comfortable about him going and when he left he said that he wouldn't be long. We had company staying overnight. And when he came home at around 6 am..staggering. I thought he must of had a good time so I never questioned him. Later when our friends left he came to me and told me of an incident that happened at another womans home, I freaked, asked him what he was doing there when he told me that he was going to this other party...of course he is mad at me.. What do you think???
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reader, beenthere +, writes (20 February 2006):
you had good reason to question him but i wonder HOW you did it? if you just had a go at him without letting him speak then ofcourse he will go mad at you. this friend might have just made it up, heard rumours, etc. and your bf was angry because you might have come across as accusing him of something he hadn't done. however, if you asked him straight and he went off on one anyway then what your friend told you is probably true. try talking to him about it again. tell him you trust him and you're not accusing him but you have heard that this has happened and you just want to know the truth because it has been playing on your mind.
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