A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time(am not a virgin) after, he said it felt right but he feels guilty cos he was selfish and would've waited till i was sure./.. but i was sure..he asked me 5times if i were sure and i said yes each time.now hes saying we are not going to have sex unless i really really want it..cos he doesnt want it to be just sex relationshipis he been weird or sweet?? he stares into my Yes alot.. and he always wants to kiss me..thnx..xxx Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, OhGetReal +, writes (16 October 2010):
I think your boyfriend is being weird because he is not being genuine with you, he's playing a head game. He mostly is in this for this sex you are giving him and he is feeling guilty about using you, and he is looking for your agreement because he actually wants to let himself off the hook because he wants you to be cool with a sexual relationship and not blame him when he decides to move on.
He's talking gobbly' d gook, double speak and that is why you can't make sense of it because it is nonsense, all of it.
He is staring into your eyes a lot and wants to kiss you because he has a hard penis. Guys are pretty simple creatures, give him sex and make him a sandwich and he will stare into your eyes and kiss you all you want. But does that make him a reliable boyfriend, I dont' think so.
|