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writes:My boyfriend of seven months says he loves me and has talked of a future together. Problem is I have three children and so am tied to the home quite a bit. He has none and came out of a six-year relationship with someone who had children and it broke his heart to leave them. So feels at mo needs to protect himself. He also has female friends who he sees and is open about and I have met. But I can't help feeling insecure because some weeks he will only see me once in the week and If I have the children only once or twice at the weekend. I feel now after this amount of time, if he really loved me, surely he would be wanting to spend more time with me. Why does he need to spend time with his female friend? I worry he might fall for one in particular; she is single, no ties. Will he see her as a better option ?
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reader, Arabyesque +, writes (16 November 2006):
You're just feeling insecure. You have kids, she doesn't, they're friends-- it makes sense to you. But he's with YOU. If he wanted this female friend, he'd probably have gone for it by now. That being said, make the effort to see him a bit more often. He obviously sees how awesome you are, so don't sweat it.
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