A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello friends! well i am from a punjabi family and i am in love with a guy who is also from same community. we are very serious about each other. i am 21 and he is 22, we have decided that we will tell about our relationship to our parents after getting our career set. we are in long term relationship and we both are enojying our relationship. the problem is that i belong to lower caste than him but i showed that im from the same community as he is. i really dont want to lose him and now i want to tell about my caste but i have no gutts to say this...sorry for my wrong english...please help...what to do????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012): Hi, I had this same problem part from. Am the male who was a high caste, there s no point as Asian families are so held back in tradition the higher family members will not accept trust me. I wasted 3 years of my life
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female
reader, cracked +, writes (19 November 2012):
Hey,I can relate to it.
Even I hid something silly from my boy friend and it was eating me from inside.If you guys are really serious,he needs to know important aspects of your life...and trust me the sooner the better.
(If it helps- my guy was shocked but he managed it with so maturity I fell in love with him all over again and realized i should have done it earlier ).
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