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writes:Hey yeh i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and yes hes yonger then me im in year 9 and hes in year 7and lately hes been sad/depressed so i asked him whats wrong he said he doesnt want to kiss me at school no more because hes big brother is in my year and he makes us kiss and he dont like thatIs he going off me ?or does he just need space?or have i done some thing Reply to this Question
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reader, Deema +, writes (18 May 2008):
 No darling, I don't think you've done anything wrong. I think he's very young, as you both are, and boys of that age get very easily embarrassed by their friends/brothers/other kids at school - as do men of all ages I have to say, so don't worry about it, just get on with your life and make yourself as happy as you can. Boys and girls of all ages are veeeeeery different - it doesn't get any easier to understand even when you get as old as me sometimes!!!!! My husband is from a different culture, and over there it is not the done thing to kiss your wife - even a peck on the cheek - in public, they believe its very private, so in the beginning I got upset when he didn't seem to want to give me a kiss goodbye or hello if we were out. Now I just give him a peck on the cheek whatever, cus he's living in my country, and thats the way WE do it here. Just trying to show you that people of all ages have stuff going on and whenever theres a problem we always tend to blame ourselves - thats a girl thing - but usually when theres a problem like this its more to do with what is going on for him rather than anything to do with you. So stop blaming yourself and have fun with your mates. Another boy wil soon come even if you get fed up with him. You've got loooooooads of time. Don't rush things.
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reader, rebbecarevenge +, writes (18 May 2008):
 dont worry ive had a similar problem before, the boy you are going out with probably just needs some time.
Some people are like that after a long relationship
best of wishes
Becca
xoxoxo
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reader, lexilou +, writes (18 May 2008):
 Its always hard to have a relationship at school and he is still quite immature in these matters due to his age so will probably be feeling a bit shy about kissing in public. My lad is year 9 and constanltly asks girls out they mostly say yes (he's a lovely looking lad with a lovely personality) but then he gets embarrassed and dumps them within a few weeks bless him. You've done well to date for 7 months so just take it steady and agree to the no kissing thing at school, his brother and mates are probably jipping him at home for this so let him know you understand x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): hiyaa
well if u have been goin out with him tha long then he must like you alot n if he told you it was his olda brother then maybe u shud respect ur bf's wishes untill he feels comfortable agen n just be ther for him he probably feels pressured into it becz he is so young so dnt worry abot it
hope this helps x
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