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*hawtyinlove
writes:Well ive been dating my boyfriend for 5months. were very happy. i have well alot of male friends. i dont make friends with girls as good because most of them always have drama. i dislike drama. so yeah. but i just hung out with my best friend ever. and my boyfriend freaked out because me and my best friend was in my room just laying down not even next to each other. we were on the floor just going through my ipods play list. and i did not lie to my boyfriend i told him what we were doing where we were and everything. but he thinks me and my best friend had sex. ive known my best friend for about 2 years now. me and him has never had an attraction to each other. i play football i get dirty. to him im just a tomboy friend. i told my boyfriend that and my best friend has even told him he has no interest in me. but my boyfriend says he can never trust me because of my best friend being in my room. i hate how my boyfriend always assumes stuff about my male friends. none of them want me. and i dont want none of them. i dont know how much ive explained it. but more than 1 time is un-needed. i dont want to break up but i feel like thats the only option. so im asking what should i do about my boyfriend not trusting me around my guy friends? Also ive never flirted or had a relationship with any of my guy friends!
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reader, Shawtyinlove +, writes (9 July 2012):
Shawtyinlove is verified as being by the original poster of the question i tell him all the time. none of my guy friends want me but me best friend and boyfriend just told me something they never told me! i guess my boyfriend went on my facebook and told my best friend to stay away from me. and my best friend got upset and messaged back saying that he loved me and he doesnt care what he has to say. my boyfriend got mad and deleted my facebook. so i made a new one and added my best friend again. and now i know this is why my boyfriend is so mean. but my best friend forgave and forgot. he didnt love me he was just saying it to piss off my boyfriend. i guess it worked because my boyfriend still remembers it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 July 2012):
 Since your boyfriend wants to be (or is) sexual with you, he assumes that all boys want to be sexual with you and are just pretending to be your friends in hopes of getting in your pants.
If your boyfriend does not trust you in general (because you have given him no reason NOT to trust you), I fear that the relationship is going to end sooner rather than later.
Trust in a relationship is critical....
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reader, JULIE MIKE  +, writes (9 July 2012):
let me tell you one thing you should know and tell your boyfriend" that is in a relationship where there is no trust there is no relationship" so if he cant trust you then theres nothing he is doing with you so he should just hit the road..because trust me if hel always do that your relationship will be hell
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