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writes:my boyfriend has just got a job which is excellent, he has been dreamed about this job all his life, until this he had a lot of free time and we were all time together...and now i feel lonely when he is at work, now we are together only 2-3 hours a day...and i'm very jealous....we have a row all time....i don't know what do i do?
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Consider yourself lucky you still get to see him everyday. My boyfriend left to go to uni and from september-may i see him once or twice a month for two days. He is out doing what he loves, and you would both be a lot happier if you found something to fill the time where you miss him. He's not leaving you at home to hurt you, a job is a part of life, you need to grow up a little and just accept it. What are you jealous of? He doesn't love his job more than you! He's just doing what he needs to and what he wants, and if you love him you can learn to live with having him and sharing him with a job. He will be happier this way and if you can accept it, then you will be happier too. Try getting a job yourself and working roughly the same hours. Talk to him about how you feel and stop having petty rows.
what are the rows about?
If they're just about him working then i think perhaps you're acting slightly selfishly. However, if you feel you are being ignored for his job, Give him a few weeks to settle into his new job and if things don't turn around then see how you feel and if you are not happy consequently just end it. But i think you just need to give it time and grow into the adult way of life and get a job yourself too, or at least dont spend all your time sat at home waiting for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Well it seems to me that you would want him, your boyfriend to make enough money to be to afford you.arguing and and you soon get result.
that not ready for. You're trying to press your feeling upon him by arguing. Is there something else going on that you're not disclosing
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