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writes:Dear Cupid, im 16 yrs old and i have a bf who i've known for years but has been with him for only 2 months. Im HONESTLY so in love with him. I dont know what i would do without him. He told me this story that when he was born, he was born with an "airbubble". He's been having symptoms like chest pain, dizziness, etc and when he finally went to the doctor to check it out, the doctor told him he might has bronchitis or heart disease (crying). I know that it can be curable like medication, dieting, and exercising but whats the percentage that he could die? Im SOO scared that im gonna lose the one i love forever !!!! please let me know what are scary risks for him or me?? Thank you a lot Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Rest assured that you will not lose him any time soon. He still has a significantly great chance of living to a ripe old age. You can help him, make sure he is living healthily. I say that to you and the previous poster. No ailment can steal hope away from you. Have faith in the human spirit, it has saved lives countless times.
I hope that helps.
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reader, hotnhorny  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 I have recently been in the same situation. I am 20 and my husband has been told he has sever epilepsy, an abnormality on his brain and he could be paralysed by the time he is 40. So I understand exactly how you feel. When you first find out about things like this it really does terrify you. Try talking to him more about it and let him no just how you feel as he may be able to help you feel alot better about it. He may also let you go to the doctor WITH him so that you can understand some of the illness abit better and here what the risks or treatments are. You might not think that it will help but trust me it does. They are there to help and if your relationship is strong enough (I am not saying that it isnt) you can both get through the worst parts of this time TOGETHER. Dont think that you will loose him, just think that on the OFF chance there is a high risk that you will loose him you have enjoyed every moment with him without thinking it might be your last. Just talk to him and let him no how you feel and how scared you are of losing him. You could also search the internet for some extra information. Yes, I wont lie there is alot of things on there that will be very scary but it is just a generally thing that they tell you they tell you the critical information in more detail than the good.
Hope this helps
Good luck x
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