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writes: My boyfriend and I have problems now for a while. A couple of weeks ago I got the impression he doesn't want me around and that im in the way. He says I'm causing him to be depressed and that he just wants to be friends. However when we do break up after a couple of weeks he always says that we should give it another go etc. There is a huge age gap between us but I love him and always want to be with him. He is living off the government at the moment and so he hasn't got a lot of money hence he can't always (and doesn't feel comfortable to) see his friends, however he blaims me for it. Last week I slept with someone else after being with my boyf for two years and I told him. He says he can't get it out of his head. What can I do to make things better with us? I will miss him so much if we break up. I want things to be the way things were when we met. We used to have a wonderful time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2005): I think that you should get out of this relationship as things are never going to be the same as they were. Also, you slept with another person so you obviously don't mind cheating on him. There's no point being with him.
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reader, pops +, writes (1 September 2005):
Of course you will miss someone you have been with for two years. But, its obvious he doesn't have any interest in continuing your relationship, and now that you made the mistake of confessing your affair with another guy, its sounds like he is going to use that against you. Why put up with this. You are young, and there are nicer guys out there who will appreciate you more. Move on. He's obvious not the right guy for you, or you would not have the fling.
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